Saturday, March 20, 2010

Where's my personal trainer?

So lately we have been doing a lot of training. We have been potty training Oliver. (Yes, I know he is 3 1/2 but it just didn't happen before this point for various reasons.) And his potty training is actually going pretty well. He took to it pretty well I assume because he is so old and knows when he needs to go and when he is going. However, the problem is that he is scared of the big potty and so he has to wear a diaper every time we leave the house because he is scared to use the big toilets. Our other problem is that he is scared to go #2 on the potty. He has managed to go twice on the potty, but I'm pretty sure those were flukes. But all in all he is doing a good job and we are proud of him. (If anyone has suggestions for our problem areas, please feel free to offer them.)

And Ruby has been in sleep training, FINALLY!! We started 2 weeks ago and finally in the last few nights she has settled down quickly and woken only a few times during the night to eat. HIP, HIP, HOORAY!!! Unless you have lived through holding your child for every nap time and all night every night for 6 months (which we have done now twice, Oliver was equally as bad) then you do not know how magical it feels to put your child in their crib at night and have them go to sleep and then to sit with the lights on in the living room and actually talk to your husband or do whatever you want until you want to go to bed. And then to go to bed and LIE DOWN, not sleep sitting up holding a baby all night but actually lie down and sleep. To get more than 2 hours of sleep at a time, it's a beautiful thing. It sort of feels euphoric and unreal at this point, but we are enjoying it. (That's sort of an understatement!) It's pure bliss! It has been a really tough road for us and I'd like to say it will never happen again, but seeing as both our children have been horrible sleepers, if we decide to have another, who's to say that they wouldn't be the same. But I really truely hope that it is a trial we won't be repeating a third time. The down side is that Ruby is still having a hard time sleeping for nap times in her crib, so we are working on that one. She has taken one or two naps on her own, but short ones and sort of broken. But she is improving slowly, so there is hope.

Now if I could get my own personal trainer to get me back in shape. Ugh......post baby weight hard to get rid of, especially when you have little kids to take care of. Time is limited and I'm tired. If only someone would show up and whip me into shape. Alas, I think the only trainer available at this point is working on child issues. Oh well, one can dream right?!

6 comments:

Scrappy said...

Yay for Oliver, Ruby and you!! I have waited with all of my boys until after they were three to start training them. I would much rather change diapers for several more months than change poopy underwear and fight my child to go in the potty when they are not ready.
I have a friend that had to hold a mirror up to her son to show him what was actually going on down there when he was going #2. I know it sounds weird, but for some reason it made it so her son was not afraid anymore. Worth a try, I guess.

We had to hold Lyla for the first 2 weeks while she slept at night, and that was hard enough (but worth it to get some sleep). She still does not sleep very well during the day without me holding her. I can't imagine how tired you guys must be doing that for 6 months! I am glad Ruby is sleeping for you in her crib now.

(Sorry, longest comment ever!) :)

KT said...

Sounds like a lot is going on in your home right now :)

No idea how to help with the scared to go potty...I trained Caleb at 3 1/2 also but it was pretty tuff because Caleb just preferred not to work at going potty and sometimes didn't even care if he went in his pants.
As for the sleeping part I used books to help with both Caleb and Chloe and it saved our marriage literally!
As for the personal trainer bit, now that Ruby is somewhat sleeping through the night hopefully you will have energy. That should help.
You are going through some of the ruff times of childhood. So glad to be done with that part!
Hope you are all doing well!

Greg said...

Sounds like things are headed in the right direction! Glad to know that you are getting some sleep - I'm sure that helps. Maybe you will get some extra rest when mom comes out to visit.

llcall said...

you guys are even more heroic to me now. we have a relatively good sleeper on our hands and feel like we are dying. (seriously, i have to have people keep reminding me that i am not, in fact, dying! i'm not, right?? :) i hope ruby's good sleeping continues!!

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Anonymous said...

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